To avoid being bored to death listening to tales of his office job, eject yourself from the situation. He's constantly talking about this "hot club" he went to or the time he air-cheersed Jay-Z from across a room. And he implies there is something "wrong with you" for not climaxing in the eight seconds it takes him. He assumes you're sitting around waiting for a ring. I'm pretty sure Paris Hilton has a rule about this in a book she "wrote" like ten years ago. He has no interest in trying to get your friends to like him.If a male in your dating orbital displays one or more of the characteristics below, run. He talks about himself more than your most narcissistic friends talk about themselves. He'll show up to the bar and expect you to blow him afterward, make no mistake.Only men tend not to have interpersonal dramas that are sometimes entertaining to hear about. The Incapable Planner never makes or sticks to plans with you because he always has something "fabulous" (that's really not fabulous) to do your company. But he'll play buck hunter over chatting with your girlfriends. He seizes every opportunity to imply his life is like Jay-Z's.“This is me – deal with it.” Well, the intro paragraph of my Catholic Match dating profile wasn’t quite that terse, but it was close. When I look back at it now I realize that I sounded more than a little arrogant. As an online dater, are you presenting yourself as someone who’s sure of his worth and not someone who has a big head? I’m talking about waiters, cabbies, housekeepers, the parking lot operator, the barrister and so on.
It was a confusing time for me because some women were responding well to the cocky and funny approach, while others were responding very badly and even asking me to go away and leave them alone.
A few weeks ago, I was set up on a blind date with a hot ER doctor. Call me when you get drafted into the NHL."He sat there, stunned, and I assumed that I had approximately 3.5 second before he got up and stormed out. So ladies, next time you're faced with a bloke who would rather talk to his own reflection than you, feel free to give him a piece of your mind.
He suggested that it might be because he's a doctor (one of the few good-looking ones, he added). Girls NEVER talk to me like that, and they really should."Can you believe it?
When I first discovered the cocky funny approach, I thought it was the “magic bullet” for success with women and dating.
I thought that if a LITTLE bit of cocky made women feel attraction, then I should use a LOT of it all at once to make women feel intense attraction. I used so much cocky and funny during my interactions with women that they couldn’t understand why I was being so arrogant and cocky.